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Mama Squirrel and I both participated in a discussion about Christmas recently. She blogged about it here. Before that Carmon wrote a post about it that prompted my wheels turning.
Of course, it doesn't take much this time of year to get me working away at refining my thinking on the topic of Christmas. Christmas is my favorite time of year, but it's also one of the more complicated times of year for me. I grew up in an extremely religious home where Christmas was never celebrated as Jesus's birthday- the reason for this is that it simply isn't. You won't find anybody in the Bible celebrating His birthday, either, although you will find examples of Christians celebrating his death, burial and resurrection week after week.
Advent calendars were forbidden in my childhood home because of their religious significance, although we did have two or three little nativities (charming gifts from a relative who had traveled to Europe). Christmas was a family celebration, and for me most of its significance is nostalgia- I love the green and red decorations, the sparkle, the glitter, the pine, the cookies, the music, the garlands and tinsel- all the elements and then some of the Christmases of my childhood.
Then I became an adult. My husband is from the same religious background as I, but his family was not nearly so strict as my own. So we began to work our own family's traditions and practices.
I won't go into all the whys and wherefores and sidesteps we took along the way, but here are some of our conclusions.
We don't teach our children that Santa brings them presents in the middle of the night and flies away by reindeer for several reasons- the most important one is that we want them to trust and believe us (we learned this the hard way, but that's another post). For the same reason we cannot teach them that Jesus is the reason for this season, except in the way that He is the reason for every season of our lives. I cannot mislead my children by telling them Jesus was born in December when the Bible never gives a date, and what information it does give indicates a completely different time. I don't get worked up about what other people do- that's not my responsibility. But I want to tell the truth to my children.
So if I can't celebrate it as a Christian religious holiday, what can I do. Most sources we read will say that many of the traditions I love seem to have stemmed from pagan roots, and this makes many Christians uncomfortable. I wonder though, how many of those 'pagan' practices really had more mundane, practical causes that were later prettied up and made spiritual- much like our reasons for not getting a tree until the middle of the month. Doesn't it seem just as likely to you that some housewife of centuries ago, tired of the winter dark and the stuffy fug of unwashed bodies trapped inside for too many months of cold and dark just got tired of it one day and dragged in some pine branches to freshen the place up? And once they were inside, why not dress them up a bit to look like summer. We have a particular corner of woods near our house where the fireflies swarm in summer, and I tell you, it's like a fairy wood in there. Maybe lights on the tree are really a reminder of the summer months when the fireflies are plentiful (maybe not, but it's really all just speculation). We don't worship those pagan gods, and we dn't put a great deal of stock into the claims of anthropologists about what those ancients really meant by all they did.
So we have a tree with lights and all the trimmings, and we have presents and stockings and we sing carols and put candles in the window for wanderers. We do have an advent calendar (just a way of counting down the days to Christmas); It's a Narnia calendar. WE don't celebrate the sort of Advent that comes with purple candles preparation for the coming of the Christ Child because he already came and grew up two thousand years ago, and this isn't the anniversary of His coming.
Meanwhile, our secular friends are singing songs about Jesus and putting up nativity scenes and talking about peace on earth and goodwill towards men, watching the Charlie Brown Christmas show, and even, in the case of our favorite atheists, reading aloud the birth of Jesus account in Luke.
The story of the nativity is an immensely popular one, even with secularists. There are, I'm sure, several reasons for this. One of them is that it is just a lovely story; young strangers traveling far from home, giving birth to a first child in a stable, laying him in a manger, shepherds, angels, music- what's not to love? It's a beautiful story. Another reason I read recently is that a baby does not demand anything of us. Secularists who love the birth in a stable story and get all teary eyed over the living creche scenes churches host, and speak warmly of goodwill toward men don't get quite the same warm fuzzy feeling from the death on the cross and the subsequent empty tomb. There is a vast difference between the helpless babe and the willingly sacrifical king who dies for us all and only asks that we live for Him. That part of the story isn't very comfortable.
But that's the most important part of the story. In that interesting discussion Mama Squirrel and I were a part of I shared a wish I have had for years, a wish for a particular type of Christmas decoration in my yard or on my roof. I want a large wooden cut out of scenes represetning the whole story- I want the darling baby in the in the manger, and I want the compassionate Messiah breaking the loaves of bread and the little fish to feed the hungry, and I want the King with healing in his hands giving sight to the blind and mobility to the halt- and then I want the heartbreaking scene of the crucifixion and the breath-taking joy of the resurrection- all portrayed in order. There would be a large sign by the crucifixion and resurrection scenes saying "This is the reason that the manger scene matters."
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Because of the conflicts between common practice and what I understand to be true, there are certain carols and traditions that I am not comfortable with. On the other hand, neither do I object to mentioning the birth of Jesus to my children in December through tale and song just because it is December. If I can honestly sing a song or tell a story any other time of year, I am quite comfortable doing the same thing in December.
Which is a very longwinded way of introducing today's Sunday Hymn Post, which does tell the rest of the story:
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When Jesus was born in the manger
The shepherds came thither to see,
For the angels proclaimed that a Savior was born
To save a poor sinner like me.
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner like me.
For the angels proclaimed that a Savior was born
To save a poor sinner like me.
He was wounded for my transgressions,
Acquainted with sorrow was He;
In the garden He prayed, and sweat great drops of blood,
To save a poor sinner like me.
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner like me.
In the garden He prayed, and sweat great drops of blood,
To save a poor sinner like me.
He was brought to Pilate for judgment,
He was sentenced to hang on a tree.
It is finished! He cried, when He suffered and died
To save a poor sinner like me.
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner like me.
“It is finished!” He cried, when He suffered and died
To save a poor sinner like me.
But death and the grave could not hold Him,
He burst them asunder for thee.
On the third day He rose, in spite of His foes,
To save a poor sinner like me.
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner like me.
On the third day He rose, in spite of His foes,
To save a poor sinner like me.
I’m fighting my passage to Heaven,
O’er death I shall conqueror be.
Then to glory I’ll fly, and shout through the sky:
He saved a poor sinner like me.
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner,
To save a poor sinner like me.
Then to glory I’ll fly, and shout through the sky:
He saved a poor sinner like me.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Most of my reaction can be summed up as "Wow; I'm glad I'm not the only one." There's a few places I feel necessary to say that explicitly.
ReplyDeletethe most important one is that we want them to trust and believe us (we learned this the hard way, but that's another post)
One I will be eagerly awaiting!
Of course, it doesn't take much this time of year to get me working away at refining my thinking on the topic of Christmas.
And here I have to say that I am glad I am not the only one. Each year is a time for reevaluation for me.
In 2000 I was reading Stephen Lawhead's Taliesin and Merlin, both of which get you thinking about those pagan holiday origins, especially if you know enough about the history of the holiday. (And if you have no idea what's coming, Taliesin will frighten a Christian indeed, at first, but is well worth the read. (P.S.: If you take me at my word on that, know that these are emphatically not books for children.)) Both blended so nicely with my previously mentioned "Christmas in the King's Court" album of Celtic harp and Pan flute music. And all that got me thinking, which was nothing new.
In 2001 I chose not to celebrate Christmas. I had my own house for the first time, but no tree. I still took winter walks, but the Christmas music never made it out of the closet. It was a good year: for two years I could claim I had not observed Christmas in the new millenium, not that that's worth anything to anyone but a mathematician. My main purpose was to try it out. I thought about living that way, whether or not I needed to, whether or not I wanted to.
The next year there was a beautiful young lady named Sarah in my life; I had someone to celebrate and to share my traditions with, and I also had no desire to burden her with a radical lifestyle change I had decided was unnecessary.
This year for the first time in my life I actually considered observing Christmas as a religious holiday. That's really bizarre and uncharacteristic for me, but I do analyze everything to death. Here are some conclusions I came to:
* If Christmas is a religious holiday, then I need to put the secular Christmas music away. Deck the Halls is out, completely. Secular Winter music could remain, but I'm not going to secularize a religious event.
* The decision to observe Christmas was made by elders (bishops) of a church that is not my congregation. Thus, they didn't have any authority to decree that I would observe it.
* Said elders were likely already apostate by then, anyway.
* I do believe elders of a congregation would have the authority to say, "We are going to observe the birth of Christ on X date." However, I do not believe they would have the authority to decide on acts of observance other than things already given to us in Scripture. "We will have a special sermon series on the birth of Christ during the month of July. We will sing songs commemorating the event. Scriptures read during the Lord's Supper will explain the significance of the birth of Christ in terms of His death and resurrection. We'll all meet Tuesday nights for Bible study on the subject. A special pamphlet about the Lord's birth has been prepared for you to distribute in your door-knocking efforts." I don't see in there decorations, Masses, or high and holy days.
I wonder though, how many of those 'pagan' practices really had more mundane, practical causes that were later prettied up and made spiritual- much like our reasons for not getting a tree until the middle of the month.
Now that was a neat thought. I've never been troubled by having alleged former pagan symbols simply because I find them beautiful, as long as the paganism has been thoroughly stripped out of them in our culture.
In fact, way back in 1995 I was, as usual, analyzing my views on Christmas and chose to take mistletoe to school and asked every one of my high school teachers if I could hang it over the door. I went on to explain that mistletoe originated as a druid symbol and invited said teachers to participate in a traditional druidic Christmas ceremony. Every one of those teachers seemed to figure out that that meant human sacrifice and declined to participate. :)
So I got to be the iconoclast I so loved being back then, plus put up decorations, plus make the point that we might need to at least think about those pagan connections, even though we might make different conclusions about their significance.
we dn't put a great deal of stock into the claims of anthropologists about what those ancients really meant by all they did.
Reminds me of how I was taught about the origins of nursery rhymes, such as that "Ring around the rosy" was inspired by the Black Death, only to find that this was an urban legend.
Another reason I read recently is that a baby does not demand anything of us.
Here I am very glad to hear that I am not the only one who has had this thought! I have been thinking and saying this for years! I personally think Satan is only too happy to rejoice in remembering the time when Jesus was most helpless, and in reminding people of that image. Not to say that we shouldn't think of and rejoice in that image, but it should temper the crazy thoughts I hear that so much good is done in the world in this time because at least people are thinking of Jesus. Personally, I have the suspicion that When the Roll is Called Up Yonder there will be very few people there, if any, who are saved because Christmas observance drew them into the Christ. We know how to save people, and it is by proclaiming the Gospel, the message of Power.
I'm also very glad to know that I'm not the only one who thinks these things through. As I do not yet have a family of my own, and the family I grew up with celebrates Christmas in the "normal" way, I am still working through my ideas about the holiday. About celebrating the birth of Christ, I suppose that if the angels celebrated it there would be no wrong with me choosing to commemorate it every year. I could do it just as well in the summer... but as for me, it doesn't bother me (yet...) to choose December. I whole-heartedly agree with the poster above that if I do choose to celebrate Christmas as the birth of Christ, there should be nothing secular about it. That's why there should be no Easter bunny on Easter -- mixing religion and popular culture is *never* a good idea. It just leads Christians to be more like the world. Like I said earlier, I'm still developing my own convictions on things (and of course a lot depends on what my dear bf thinks about it -- he tends to be more conservative than I am in these areas). I really enjoy reading through the decisions of others who have already thought these things through. Thanks for the post!
ReplyDelete1. Only one Gospel mentions the birth, because that's not the important bit.
ReplyDelete2. Last year, I heard an alternate theory advanced for why the birth of Christ was celebrated in December— it seems that there's a Jewish tradition that prophets die at the same time of year as they were conceived. A death just after Passover means a December birth.
Of course, when you're talking about a heavenly conception (not the Immaculate Conception, that's a misunderstanding), all bets are off.
3. Germanic tribes are the source of the Christmas tree, which was introduced into Angloshpere culture by Prince Albert, Queen Victoria's husband. I'm not exactly sure of the origins, but I know they cut down a tree and hung it from the rafters, upside down... so people who do that nowadays are actually acting out the original tradition.
4. On the question of Santa, I'm not going to do anything but give them information... lots and lots of information, starting with the Bishop of Myra and going through Yes, Virginia. If they can stay awake through the whole explanation, then they're old enough to make their own determinations.
In fact, way back in 1995 I was, as usual, analyzing my views on Christmas and chose to take mistletoe to school and asked every one of my high school teachers if I could hang it over the door. I went on to explain that mistletoe originated as a druid symbol and invited said teachers to participate in a traditional druidic Christmas ceremony. Every one of those teachers seemed to figure out that that meant human sacrifice and declined to participate. :)
ReplyDeleteYou crack me up, David. You must have been a joy in the classroom for the right kind of teacher, and an absolute thorn for the other sort.
Here's another custom we have that we've been told has pagan origins- fruit in the stocking, nearly always an apple and an orange.
I asked my mom about why we always do that (she had them too as a child) and she looked at me blankly and said, "Because they take up space, of course, and aren't too expensive." And oranges were a bit of a novelty in the post WW2 midwest where my mother had her first stockings- in fact, just a few minutes away from where I sit here typing.
But can't you just see some crack anthropologist/theologian/psychobabbler of some sort opining about the meaning of fruit in a stocking and possible connections with fertility or fruitfulness, or maybe an effort to appease the goddess of the harvest so that she would return and chase winter from the land...?
LOL! And here I thought the fruit was just a treat ;-)
ReplyDelete"the most important one is that we want them to trust and believe us (we learned this the hard way, but that's another post)."
ReplyDeleteI'm with David -- bring it on! We don't do Santa for the same reason, but I have friends who say "My parents told me Santa was real and it never affected my ability to trust them about Jesus". Good for them, but I don't want to risk it. My in-laws think I'm robbing the kids of their childhood, and de-emphasizing that we are celebrating the gift of grace that Jesus gave us by coming to earth by not doing Santa. I told them "Yeah, but I don't think Jesus meant for us to make a list and whine when we don't get everything on it, or that a giant pile of gifts under the tree from Santa helps us celebrate the gift of Grace any better than one simple one from Mom and Dad would.
David and Gema, Y'all can both find it in the archives of the email list you're both on. I've unsubbed temporarily (I thought I'd be moving this month), so you can bring it up better than I can. If you have time to look and find it, you can email a copy to me and I'll post it here.=)
ReplyDeleteI will say that we played the Santa game when I was a child and it never once caused any of us to doubt what we were told about God. In most cases I really do believe that if that happens then there's something wrong with how either God or Santa was taught in the home- after all Santa was only once a year. God is, or should be, 365 days a year.
We did Santa with our first two, and when we told them the truth they never did question God. One of them, however, had some deep, serious, and quite understandable questions about her *parents*. It was quite humiliating, and not a possibility I'd considered. I never wished to repeat the experience, so we never did Santa again. I'll leave you to guess which one of the Progeny it was.=)
That was my experience. I see no logical progression from "there is no Santa" to "there is no God", so that was never an issue; but at 6 years old or so, it certainly upset me to learn that my parents were liars, and for no good reason at that.
ReplyDeleteI guess that is my main problem with Santa -- lying to my children and telling them it's a game later on. I do struggle with how to deal with the question "Well, then why do other parents lie to their children?", particularly when it's friends from church. I was asked, quite politely, recently to ask my girls not to tell the neighbor children there was no Santa. So, now I have to try to explain that the other mommies and daddies are playing a game, and we need to keep the secret. Sheesh. Have you ever known a 5- or 7-yr-old to be able to keep a secret?
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