Thursday, March 31, 2011

Four Moms Thursday- In Which We Answer A Question


Welcome to FOUR MOMS THURSDAY!!  Each week we four moms of umptybillion children, give or take a few, share our foibles, expertise, horrible warnings, bad examples, encouragement, laughs and tears and YOU, Gentle Reader, get to peek into the insanity.  We hope you also get to glean something helpful!
This week is our Q and A post- each of us grabs a question or two from our grab bag and answers it.  We do not usually discuss these ahead of time, so I have no idea what my co-momspirators are going to talk about- we shall all find out together.
Kimberly at Raising Olives
Kim C at Life in a Shoe is dealing with the sudden death of her father this week, so she is taking a break.
Connie at Smockity Frocks 


  

What do you use for your babies when they are not co-sleeping? pack and play? Mini Crib? Crib? 

Do you mean for naps?  Because our babies have all co-slept until they weren't babies, really, with a couple of exceptions in unusual circumstances. Mostly, naps were taken on our bed, in the middle of the bed so they did not roll over, and I checked on them frequently (or napped with them).
In some details, this has varied over the years/children. With one child we lived briefly in a trailer in the dead of winter and couldn't heat all the rooms.  Water froze in our room at night.  She slept in a playpen in the living room.
At various times we have used a playpen, a crib, a mattress on the floor, and a sibling's bed, complete with sibling.   

What age do you transition them to a real bed?

When the children start sleeping sideways and propping their feet up on my husband's nose.
They have all done this. 

Boys and Charlotte Mason- are they compatible? - this wasn't really precisely the question, but I think it's the one I am answering.  The actual question was a much more innocuous request to share my thoughts on CM and boys.  My thoughts on CM and boys wouldn't take up much space, though.  I'd just say, "It's GREAT!"- so, are boys and a CM education compatible?:

YES.

Can boys do poetry?  For centuries ONLY boys and men DID poetry- it was a manly art. I believe it still is.  Read this post about Jean Kerr (author of Please Don't Eat the Daisies) and see how she and her husband taught their five or six rambunctious, athletic, All Boy male offspring to enjoy poetry.

Art?  YES- again, for centuries, this was the exclusive domain of the male sex.  I am not justifying that, but surely, if men found fulfillment and joy in art for a few thousand years, they still can.

Basically, all of fields Miss Mason talks about- the liberal arts- they were the domain of men. But in the 20th century there was a shift in our thinking about gender and education..
This is the century when we decided that men and boys really don't
read unless there's swearing, naked bosums, and a bottle of booze in
the drawer. Plentiful explosions and dismembered body parts may
substitute for any of the above. 

Handicrafts?  YES. 
What is Miss Mason's purpose for handicrafts? 

Miss Mason's students practised "various handicrafts that he may know the feel of wood, clay, leather, and the joy of handling tools, that is, that he may establish a due relation with materials..."

Woodwork, sculpting, leather work, handling tools- that sounds very boy-friendly, doesn't it?



About the role of daily handiwork in her schools she wrote: "The points to be borne in mind in children's handicrafts are: (a) that they should not be employed in making futilities such as pea and stick work, paper mats, and the like; (b) that they should be taught slowly and carefully what they are to do; (c) that slipshod work should not allowed..."

 Here's my son's recent 'handicraft' activity=)

We are shortchanging all our children these days,but it looks like particularly our boys are suffering.
 

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Crackled Glass


At Strider's and the HG's rehearsal dinner, his mother made incredibly beautiful center pieces with bowls of crackled glass, coffee beans, and candles surrounded by fall foliage. I was so taken by the look of the crackled glass that I immediately started keeping my eyes open at thrift shops (HA- did you think I'd go buy it new? Not I).

This is one of the first pieces I found, which thrilled my soul because the leaf pattern (is that acanthus?) of the metal holder fits in beautifully with my whole neo-medieval, William Morris-ish, this-is-a-museum-but-you-CAN-touch living room theme.

I do not know what it is that I find so appealing about the crackled glass effect, but I find it beautiful and it makes me feel a happy glow inside when candles are glowing in crackled glass.

Thinking Outside the Bowl

The Dread Pirate Grasshopper, a helpful child, feeds the Zeus Dog. He did it all last winter under supervision, and has in the last couple weeks taken it upon himself to stop by the empty dog food bowl twice a day and fill it up himself. Without supervision it takes him three times as long and he makes three times as much mess, but he has more fun.

(When The Equuschick says without supervision, she should specify she is still in the room with the Grasshopper and the Dog lest an emergency should happen to arise, because it is a fact that no matter how well behaved the dog and child, Small Children and Dogs Should Never Be Left Alone Together Especially in the Context of Food.)

Yesterday, the Grasshopper outdid himself. He thought he should be free to toddle around the kitchen with Zeus's full water bowl as well, but The Equuschick objected. He was told he could only play with the food bowl. Not the water bowl.

The Grasshopper complied, and The Equuschick felt a small glow of pride at her Mad Toddler Parenting Skillz. Relaxed, but with standards. Standards clearly and specifically stated in a way that every toddler could understand and appreciate.

Hahahahaha.

About twenty minutes later, The Equuschick heard some mysterious sounds of flowing water, and saw the Grasshopper carefully and deliberately ladling all of the water from the water bowl into the dog food bowl with the food scoop.

She watched with a fascinated and unfortunately slow dawning of comprehension until at last the Grasshopper, his task completed, picked up what was still technically the food bowl (even thought it was now filled with water) and paraded it around the kitchen grinning like a maniac at his accomplishment.

There was little left to do but laugh.

Frugal Lessons Learned On the Way

4. Being frugal need not be grim. Learn to have fun without spending money.  Have a race.  Jump rope.  Play hop scotch.  Find a hill and slide down it on cardboard boxes (wax them by rubbing with the side of a candle for even more speed).  Skip.  Play Mother May I, Red Light, Green Light, or ring around the rosy.  Find a swing set and swing.  Even if you are thirty.  Especially if you are forty.

You can serve beans and rice and tell funny stories around the dinner table, marvel at the structure of a bean, delight in the colorful contrast between red beans and brown rice, and look up the history of the dish, learning something about the culture that produced it.  Have fun. Take joy, make joy- it doesn't have to cost money.


Previously:
Lesson 8
Lesson 7
Lesson 6
Lesson 5
Lesson 4
Lesson 3
Lesson 2
Lesson 1

Cinnamon Chocolate Torte

Pssst. Over here.



It's amazing!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Guidance Counselor Schools White Liberal On Education



Vanessa Jean-Louis has done her homework and she obviously cares about the children she helps actually getting an education.

The white liberal liar she's talking to? Not so much.

He doesn't even make sense. He says foolish things like "Let them have choice but keep it in the public sector", and even though she tells him that funding for the public schools has gone up even while results have gone down, he says that the answer is just more money.

You may also enjoy this post, where I quote:


From a clip at Hot Air came this insight from radio host Lisa Fritsch:
"We have to expose the diabolical agenda of liberalism. I used to think it was well-intentioned, but misguided. But when you read that 90% of black children will receive food stamps at some point in their lives, and liberals' platform supports this, but rejects and opposes the idea of giving black kids vouchers to go to a better school... and let themselves out of that cycle... How can you not be a conservative?

The more we expose the evil and cruelty that liberalism is, then people will start to wake up. This woman [radio show guest who thinks Obama will give her free money] is a slave."
It is pretty incredible, isn't it, that vouchers are just about the only 'redistribution' program that liberals refuse to support, and that denial of vouchers to children already on them was nearly one of the first things Obama did upon taking office?

In fact, he is still insisting his strong opposition to vouchers, denying other children the same opportunities he wants his own girls to have.

But vouchers would put the power of decision making firmly in the hands of the poor, and that would reduce the dependency necessary for the continuance of the Welfare State.  And yes, I really do believe that is what it is all about- government dependency vs liberty and freedom.

Notice Something Funny on Facebook?

Does it seem like you are just seeing comments and updates from the same old people?  That's because when the The "New Facebook" switched you over to your new profile, they automatically adjusted your settings so that you only see status updates from people you recently 'interacted with'- and recently means just the week or so before you got the 'New Facebook.'  I don't know about you, but I like to read the updates from a lot of friends, but I rarely comment.  That means I've been invisible to people who might want to read my updates (and pictures of my adorable grandbabies, including the little one so many of you have prayed for, thank-you so much!), and many FB pages I love to read have been invisible to me.  There are some frugal FB pages in particular that I have only 'friended' specifically so I can get updates on frugal tips- and they've been invisible to me!


Happily, this is easy to fix. 
Sign in to FB.  Click on 'Home' 
Click on 'Most Recent'
Notice the little drop down arrow next to Most Recent?  I hadn't noticed it before, either.  Click on that arrow.
Click on 'edit options.'
Click on Show Posts From...

Make sure to choose the "All of your friends and pages" setting- that should be it!



Now you should be able to see the feeds you want to see again (presuming you really do want to see them).  However, you will still be invisible to others, so help get out the word.  You can become visible again to others by either:

commenting or 'liking' something from each and every one of your friends, so that you are now one of the friends they have 'recently interacted with,' OR
pass on a link to this post OR
make your own post, email, or fb page for your friends to read OR
linking to this FB event which explains the problem and how to fix it.


I realize some of you don't do FB at all.  Just so you know, I'm near to maxing out my photo use on the blog, so I am posting more pictures on FB than here lately.  Including pics of those adorable grandbabies (don't I sound besotted, assuming all of my nearest and dearest strangers are just as interested in admiring the grandbabies as I am?)...

Frugal Lessons Learned On the Way, 3

We began our married lives poorer than church mice. After a year, my husband enlisted in the Air Force and we became as poor as church mice. I've been sharing some of the basic principles we learned that helped us climb out of the hole:

3. A sense of entitlement is deadly to your financial health and well being- and it's pretty stinky as part of one's personal character as well.  Of course, few of us think that we have that sort of attitude.

  However, if you find yourself thinking resentfully, "I deserve this."  "I shouldn't have to live like this."  "But I WANT it."  "Why shouldn't I treat myself?"  "But I don't FEEL like rice and beans again," those are symptoms of some level of a sense of entitlement.

Why do you deserve it, whatever 'it' is, more than somebody else?  What does it mean to 'deserve' something?  Do you 'deserve' to spend your family into debt?

Why shouldn't you have to live like this, whatever this is, (presuming we're talking about something as trivial as not getting to go out to eat at your favorite restaurant rather than something truly serious, like starving to death)?  Who said?  In your universe where you shouldn't have to live like this, does anybody else have to pay their hard-earned cash so you do not have live in a way you think is less than you deserve?

Most of the world doesn't have the luxury of picking a dinner menu based on what they 'feel' like having.  They eat what is available and, if they are fortunate, affordable. Why shouldn't we?

In fact, throughout most of human history very, very few people have had the luxury of choosing their menu from the bounty of all four seasons, from just about anywhere in the world, and based entirely on what they 'felt' like eating.

Likewise- clothing choices, housing choices, climate control issues (I first heard an adult say 'I should not have to live this way' in reference to not being able to afford the cost of running the air conditioner in the summer), and luxuries such as color coordinated kitchens.

In general, "I shouldn't have to...' in reference to economics is a phrase that will not help you live within your means.

LInked at Works for Me Wednesday 

Previously:Lesson 8
Lesson 7
Lesson 6
Lesson 5
Lesson 4
Lesson 3
Lesson 2
Lesson 1

Monday, March 28, 2011

Blue and Yellow


Linked at Twice-Owned Tuesday

Links and Thinks

President supports more drilling in Brazil, but opposes it at home.  What gives?

Our 'allies' in Libya include members of Al Quaeda.  Well.  Who could have known that?


We don't use oil to generate our electricity here in the USA.  We mostly use coal.  We use oil for transportation.  This is why windmills do nothing to reduce our oil dependency (in fact, since the parts, tools, and workers need to be transported, they might increase our oil use)

A few things you might not have heard about Ghandi (like the question 'would you teach the gospel to a cow?" in his explanation of why 'the untouchables' should not receive the same liberties as other Indians).

Jake Tapper (ABC News) asks Secretary of Defense Robert Gates if Libya posed 'an actual or imminent threat to the United States.'  Gates says:


“No, no."..."It was not — it was not a vital national interest to the United States..."
 Problem:
The War Powers Resolution requires there to be “(1) a declaration of war, (2) specific statutory authorization, or (3) a national emergency created by attack upon the United States, its territories or possessions, or its armed forces” before a President can send US military forces into a new conflict.
People have disputed the constitutionality of the WPR ever since Congress passed it, but no President has ever had the nerve to challenge it.  Moreover, Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton ran for the presidency in 2007-8 by challenging George Bush’s record on military adventurism, and now-VP Joe Biden specifically campaigned on the promise to impeach Bush in his final year in office if he violated it.  Gates’ admission leaves Obama with very little room to pretend that he followed his own campaign rhetoric on warmaking.

 Secretary of State Clinton tries to make up a 'unilateral' exception on the imagined basis that Obama has some awesome coalition.  Point of Fact:
This coalition is the smallest since World War II involving the US in military action, only half the size of  George W. Bush’s Iraq War coalition.
 Secretary of Defense Gates also refuses to support the President's claim that this is a limited engagement. When asked if it will be over by the end of the year, he says nobody knows.
Even the left leaning Politifact calls this a full flip-flop.

Leftwing Media Matters drops all pretense at objectivity, or even honesty, in their announcement that they are now going all out against one news channel, specifically using tactics of “guerrilla warfare and sabotage."  Sabotage?
Seriously?

A D.C. School seemed to be having dramatic improvement in their kids' test scores.  Looks like it was fraud:
A USA TODAY investigation, based on documents and data secured under D.C.'s Freedom of Information Act, found that for the past three school years most of Noyes' classrooms had extraordinarily high numbers of erasures on standardized tests. The consistent pattern was that wrong answers were erased and changed to right ones.
The worst fraud of all is the way the adults working at this school have conspired to defraud their students of a future.

Alexander H. Stephens, Vice President of the CSA

I am very strongly in favor of States' Rights. But I am not at all comfortable with the baggage that sometimes comes along with the phrase.

Alexander H. Stevens, Vice- President of the Confederacy gave a speech which was quite well received at the time, but neo-Confederates of today would like to pretend it never happened, or that the VP of the would be confederation of states was a nobody whose opinions didn't matter that much, or, at best, that they were a mere reflection of the times, something 'everybody' thought, and thus should be overlooked.
He lays out one of the primary causes for the Civil War very clearly.  Emphasis added:


But not to be tedious in enumerating the numerous changes for the better, allow me to allude to one other — though last, not least. The new constitution has put at rest, forever, all the agitating questions relating to our peculiar institution — African slavery as it exists amongst us — the proper status of the negro in our form of civilization. This was the immediate cause of the late rupture and present revolution. [...]

The prevailing ideas entertained by him [Jefferson] and most of the leading statesmen at the time of the formation of the old constitution, were that the enslavement of the African was in violation of the laws of nature; that it was wrong in principle, socially, morally, and politically. It was an evil they knew not well how to deal with, but the general opinion of the men of that day was that, somehow or other in the order of Providence, the institution would be evanescent and pass away. This idea, though not incorporated in the constitution, was the prevailing idea at that time. [...]

Those ideas, however, were fundamentally wrong. They rested upon the assumption of the equality of races. This was an error. It was a sandy foundation, and the government built upon it fell when the “storm came and the wind blew.”
Our new government is founded upon exactly the opposite idea; its foundations are laid, its corner- stone rests upon the great truth, that the negro is not equal to the white man; that slavery — subordination to the superior race — is his natural and normal condition. [Applause.] This, our new government, is the first, in the history of the world, based upon this great physical, philosophical, and moral truth. This truth has been slow in the process of its development, like all other truths in the various departments of science. It has been so even amongst us. Many who hear me, perhaps, can recollect well, that this truth was not generally admitted, even within their day. The errors of the past generation still clung to many as late as twenty years ago. Those at the North, who still cling to these errors, with a zeal above knowledge, we justly denominate fanatics. All fanaticism springs from an aberration of the mind — from a defect in reasoning. It is a species of insanity. One of the most striking characteristics of insanity, in many instances, is forming correct conclusions from fancied or erroneous premises; so with the anti-slavery fanatics; their conclusions are right if their premises were. They assume that the negro is equal, and hence conclude that he is entitled to equal privileges and rights with the white man. If their premises were correct, their conclusions would be logical and just — but their premise being wrong, their whole argument fails. [...]

They [those against slavery] were attempting to make things equal which the Creator had made unequal.
In the conflict thus far, success has been on our side, complete throughout the length and breadth of the Confederate States. It is upon this, as I have stated, our social fabric is firmly planted; and I cannot permit myself to doubt the ultimate success of a full recognition of this principle throughout the civilized and enlightened world.
[He equates the truth of this, which he calls a new principle, with scientific truths of Galileo, Adam Smith, Harvey, that, like their ideas, the new principle of inequality based on race will take time to be accepted] 
  It is the first government ever instituted upon the principles in strict conformity to nature, and the ordination of Providence, in furnishing the materials of human society. Many governments have been founded upon the principle of the subordination and serfdom of certain classes of the same race; such were and are in violation of the laws of nature. Our system commits no such violation of nature’s laws. With us, all of the white race, however high or low, rich or poor, are equal in the eye of the law. Not so with the negro. Subordination is his place. He, by nature, or by the curse against Canaan, is fitted for that condition which he occupies in our system. [...] It is, indeed, in conformity with the ordinance of the Creator. It is not for us to inquire into the wisdom of his ordinances, or to question them. For his own purposes, he has made one race to differ from another, as he has made “one star to differ from another star in glory.”
Too bad he seems not to have known this verse from Acts chapter 17:

And he has made of one blood all the nations of men living on all the face of the earth

I can hardly read this next paragraph without bile rising up in my mouth: 
The great objects of humanity are best attained when there is conformity to his laws and decrees, in the formation of governments as well as in all things else. Our confederacy is founded upon principles in strict conformity with these laws. This stone which was rejected by the first builders “is become the chief of the corner” — the real “corner-stone” — in our new edifice. [Applause.]
This is nothing short of blasphemous, both the speaker and the applauders.  The VP of the Confederacy cherishes the institution of slavery so much that he actually equates the race-based subjugation of men, women, and children with the 'stone rejected by the first builders,' but the Bible he claims to use to support this vile stance very clearly and plainly says that Jesus is that Cornerstone- not  the kidnapping and enslavement of men, women, and children who happen to be black.

Never let anybody tell you that the American Civil War really didn't have much to do with slavery.  The VP of the Confederacy not only said it was the primary issue, he twists scriptures to equate slavery with the Savior.
I've read this before- it is very instructive, is it not?  It's also instructive to read the statements published by the seceding states at the time of their secession explaining their reasons.  Those claiming slavery had little to do with it are the revisionists in this case.

The Corner, which posted Stephens' speech, says that after the war, he tried to back track a bit, only.... he's finds it difficult. He basically blames reporters for getting what he said wrong, but then he simply digs the hole deeper.  He also reveals or rather confirms, two other black marks against the Southern States before the war:
[...] I did not say, nor do I think the reporter represented me as saying, that there was the slightest change in the new Constitution from the old regarding the status of the African race amongst us. (Slavery was without doubt the occasion of secession; out of it rose the breach of compact, for instance, on the part of several Northern States in refusing to comply with Constitutional obligations as to rendition of fugitives from service, a course betraying total disregard for all constitutional barriers and guarantees.)
For a man who claimed to believe in a higher law, he seems strangely ignorant or unconcerned with what that law said about returning fugitive slaves:
"Thou shalt not deliver unto his master the servant which is escaped from his master unto thee:  He shall dwell with thee, even among you, in that place which he shall choose in one of thy gates, where it liketh him best: thou shalt not oppress him" (Deuteronomy 23:15, 16).
Stephens continues to excuse himself and offer an apologetic for his speech:
I admitted that the fathers, both of the North and the South, who framed the old Constitution, while recognizing existing slavery and guaranteeing its continuance under the Constitution so long as the States should severally see fit to tolerate it in their respective limits, were perhaps all opposed to the principle. Jefferson, Madison, Washington, all looked for its early extinction throughout the United States. But on the subject of slavery – so called – (which was with us, or should be, nothing but the proper subordination of the inferior African race to the superior white) great and radical changes had taken place in the realm of thought; many eminent latter-day statesmen, philosophers, and philanthropists held different views from the fathers.
[...]
The relation of the black to the white race, or the proper status of the coloured population amongst us, was a question now of vastly more importance than when the old Constitution was formed. The order of subordination was nature’s great law; philosophy taught that order as the normal condition of the African amongst European races. Upon this recognized principle of a proper subordination, let it be called slavery or what not, our State institutions were formed and rested. The new Confederation was entered into with this distinct understanding. This principle of the subordination of the inferior to the superior was the “corner-stone” on which it was formed. I used this metaphor merely to illustrate the firm convictions of the framers of the new Constitution that this relation of the black to the white race, which existed in 1787, was not wrong in itself, either morally or politically; that it was in conformity to nature and best for both races.
Please note that he felt it necessary to defend the idea that the black was inferior to the white as a justification for slavery, to explain why this was not wrong, morally or politically- which tells us that it is a mistake to give Stephens and others who held this opinion a free pass on the basis of this being 'what everybody thought.'  HE did not believe this was what everybody thought.  He lived and breathed and had his being in that time, and he knew it was a doctrine that was sharply criticized.

My own opinion of slavery, as often expressed, was that if the institution was not the best, or could not be made the best, for both races, looking to the advancement and progress of both, physically and morally, it ought to be abolished. It was far from being what it might and ought to have been. Education was denied. This was wrong. I ever condemned the wrong. Marriage was not recognized. This was a wrong that I condemned.
He admits plainly that education was denied to the slaves and that marriages were not recognized.  Yet NeoConfederates today will tell that this is either not true, or not 'very' true- that is, they will claim that this was rare.  I do not know the basis for that belief, but it's not in history.  Contemporary accounts of the time confirm that marriages recognized by the slave owners or educated slaves were exceptions.
[...]Great improvements were, however, going on in the condition of blacks in the South. Their general physical condition not only as to necessaries but as to comforts was better in my own neighbourhood in 1860, than was that of the whites when I can first recollect, say 1820. Much greater would have been made, I verily believe, but for outside agitation. I have but small doubt that education would have been allowed long ago in Georgia, except for outside pressure which stopped internal reform.

Excuse me?  Men of principle do what is right because it is right.  They do not childishly prevent one group of people from gaining education because a third group whom they disdain think it is a good idea.   Isn't it interesting how here he admits a great failing on the part of the south- that yes, they denied education to the slaves, and then instead of accepting culpability for that, makes that the fault of those 'outside pressures' who wished to improve conditions?

Related:
Interracial Marriage

Nope, it doesn't matter that this what 'everybody thought.'

Frugal Lessons Learned On the Way 2

Our first year of marriage was a year in abject poverty- and that is no exaggeration.  Then my husband joined the military as an enlisted man and things were better, but sometimes we still had difficult time making a paycheck last until the next one.
We learned some principles that have been very useful to us.  I'm sharing ten of them over the next ten days, in no particular order.  It's nothing I haven't shared before, but sometimes we all need reminders.

2. Sometimes it seems like everybody in the world wants your money, and sometimes you really don't care because you want a lot of the stuff they'd like to trade for your money.  But you probably really don't need that stuff badly enough to justify getting it on credit, now do you?  Layway here, six months same as cash there, easy low payment of 20 dollars a month elsewhere.... It seems so easy and it's not that much, and what's the big deal, anyway?  ALL the other families in your neighborhood/church/kid's school/study group have __________ already.

But before you know it, it all adds up to the point that your paycheck is all promised away before you've even cashed it.  Don't let your money be dribbled away like that.  Be strong, and save up the money yourself=- if you don't have the discipline to set aside that ten dollars a month in your own account, you don't need to be messing about with credit; it's dangerous. And when you set aside the money yourself each month for that coveted item, you may just find that you do not want that junk after all, and that's even better.

Previously:
Lesson 8
Lesson 7
Lesson 6
Lesson 5
Lesson 4
Lesson 3
Lesson 2
Lesson 1

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Menu for week of March 27th

Breakfasts: overnight crockpot cereal
eggs, shirred, and omeletted
Almond coconut pancakes, only I'd like to remember the soak the almonds overnight first. These are grain and gluten free, can be dairy free if you use coconut milk or a milk substitute, are corn free- but are rich in eggs.
nutmeg muffins, testing a method where I soak the grains overnight

Lunches:
15 minute chow mein (this was amazingly delicious)
chicken salad (made with home-made mayo, slivered almonds, craisins, and torn up lettuce)
Leftovers
Home-made bread and almond butter (also home-made) with fruit
Instant blender broccoli soup (home-made convenience food) with home-made croutons
California Walnut, turkey, and rice salad (only we will have it with almonds and chicken)
Low-carb Farmer's Fry, a speedy dish featuring cauliflower, bacon, and eggs

Suppers:
Almond Tofu with salad and yellow rice

Liver with mashed potatoes and green beans, almonds, and thyme

Chicken and vegetables cooked in coconut milk with spices (go easy on the spicy spices) page 200 of the Thursday Night Feast Book, to be posted

Corned beef, cabbage, and potatoes (all in the crockpot- corned beef was 1.49 a pound)

Pork subgum

Enchilada pie

Crockpot Chicken Adobo

Some extras to be shared later.=)

Linked at Organizing Junkie's Menu Plan Mondays 

Extras shared later: Chocolate Cinnamon Torte- Mmmmm.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Hmmmm


What's all this?






Today is Blynken's birthday. Today is also the first non-medical outing the Striderling is taking and they are coming to OUR house!!!

There is a treasure hunt under way- and we are watching my dad.

Frugal Lessons Learned On the Way

Before my husband joined the military, we spent a year in abject poverty- and that is no exaggeration.  We lived two or three months with no electricity because we couldn't afford the deposit.  We chilled food in an ice chest and went to bed by candlelight.  We had no car, and I usually walked the two miles to my doctor's appointments and half a mile to the grocery store.  We once had no food in the house except for two eggs, and no money coming in until the next day, and I dropped one egg and broke it.  This has long been one of our children's favorite stories of our early days. I think it's funny now, but at the time I wailed in genuine anguish.

During those hard times, and in the sometimes still hard times even after we got a regular paycheck, we learned some principles that have been very useful to us.  I'm sharing ten of them over the next ten days, in no particular order.  It's nothing I haven't shared before, but sometimes we all need reminders.


1. If you can only afford to do something special on payday, you cannot really afford it at all.
We used to splurge and order pizza delivered on payday.  We did this because we wouldn't have any money left for this treat if we waited another week or two- but if money is that tight, you really cannot afford the indulgence and should practice self-control instead.

Previously:
Lesson 8
Lesson 7
Lesson 6
Lesson 5
Lesson 4
Lesson 3
Lesson 2
Lesson 1

Friday, March 25, 2011

Done

Mayonnaise is done.

Hedgehog bread is done, a recipe is up here, and pictures and a tutorial for making hedgehog shapes with any yeast bread is up on the Common Room FB page.

Barbeque chicken in the crockpot

Peach cobbler in the oven.

The house is reasonably clean.

I am as caught up on laundry as anybody ever gets in a family this size.

The Little Boys were given squirt bottles of essential oils (lemongrass, rosemary, cinnamon, and clove)- and went around the house wiping down light switches, door knobs, and the spots on teh wall where they rub their grubbly little patty paws.

So I guess I should go get out of my pajamas now, because company will be here in 35 minutes.

Child Denied Adoption Because He Has Down Syndrome

As most of our readers know, we have a child with multiple disabilities.  She's 24.  She does not speak.  She only has a few signs. She still is not toilet trained.  You can read more about her here.
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Tesney and Greg are seeking to adopt a child with Down's Syndrome from Russia. They ran into several snags, but finally, it looked like things were moving forward.

we found out that Kirill is the first child from his region EVER to be adopted with Down Syndrome. A birth mother keeping her child with Down Syndrome is unheard of in this area of the world. Adoptions of children with Down Syndrome just don’t happen there, these children are literally hidden away from society in orphanages and mental institutions. As our process continued, it became apparent that Kirill would be a pioneer. If our adoption was approved, it would pave the way for other children with special needs to be adopted from this region.
They got a court date, and the orphanage told them that they'd never, not in 17 years, had an adoption refused once there was a court date.

Last week, as we sat in the courtroom and suffered through five agonizing hours of difficult questioning, we were not prepared for anything but an approval of our case. Two doctors, two social workers, and the Minister of Children’s Services all made very strong statements on our behalf. They fought for us. Hard.

But when the ruling was read, the judge said, “Your application to adopt is rejected.” The basis given was that Kirill was “not socially adaptable” due to his “medical condition” and he was better off in an institution than in a home with a family. As the judge read her ruling, she stated several times that we were a good family, that we met all the criteria to adopt a child, but that she would not approve our adoption because Kirill has Down Syndrome. She told us that we could adopt another child, because legally our application had no problems according to Russian adoption law. She said she would approve our adoption for a “typical” child, but not this child. Why? The only reason? Because he has Down Syndrome. Even though we were approved by our home study and by the USCIS to adopt a child with special needs. It makes no sense whatsoever. Denying a child a family because he has Down Syndrome is a violation of human rights at its most basic level!


I also wrote about our Cherub here, where I said:
Some people who have just met us will often tell us over and over again how sorry
they feel for the Cherub. It tends to be the most unobservant, or perhaps self-absorbed, people who feel so sorry for her. We can tell, because sooner or later, they will draw attention to their self-absorbtion by saying something like "I wouldn't want to live like that." I find this sadly amusing, as the Cherub is generally a pretty happy soul, and is perfectly content with things as they are (although there could always be another cookie, another song, another hug, another joy ride on a golf cart). I'm pretty sure that I would not want to live my life as a self-absorbed fool, either, but I don't tell them it would be better if they'd been killed at birth just because I would find it unsatisfying to live life as they do.

To those with a heart and mind to learn, the Cherub has some lessons to teach- just by her existance. It's hard to stay self-absorbed around somebody who has so little, but loves so much. We tend to feel sorrier for those who do not have a Cherub in their lives.

Christopher Nolan, Irish poet, author, and a remarkable mind is also extremely physically disabled. He wrote a book called _Under the Eye of the Clock_, an autobiographical account of his childhood. We highly recommend this book- it is real. It's a bit gritty in places, some language, that sort of thing- but this is really a book worth reading.

Mr. Nolan points out that one of the greatest ironies of this age is that now, when technology opens up opportunities and chances for life for the disabled that nobody could have ever even imagined 200 years ago, the 'opportunity' many of the able bodied are most anxious to share with the disabled is the chance to kill themselves, or to have the deed done to them under medical supervision. Neither Mr. Nolan nor our Cherub pose a threat to anybody. Neither of them can harm, maim, or kill another human being. So why would some prefer to see people like them aborted, quietly put to sleep..."

Or, as in the case of young Kirill, left to languish in an institution rather than the arms of parents who love him.

The Green Thing Back in the Day

This is from a forward Granny Tea sent me:

In the line at the store, the cashier told the older woman that plastic bags weren't good for the environment. The woman apologized to her and explained, We didn't have the green thing back in my day.

That's right, they didn't have the green thing in her day. Back then,
They returned their milk bottles, Coke bottles and beer bottles to the store.
The store sent them back to the plant to be washed and sterilized and
Refilled, using the same bottles over and over. So they really were recycled. But
They didn't have the green thing back her day.

In her day, they walked up stairs, because they didn't have an escalator
In every store and office building. They walked to the grocery store and
didn't climb into a 300-horsepower machine every time they had to go two
Blocks. But she's right. They didn't have the green thing in her day.

Back then, they washed the baby's diapers because they didn't have the
Throw-away kind. They dried clothes on a line, not in an energy gobbling
Machine burning up 220 volts wind and solar power really did dry the
Clothes. Kids got hand-me-down clothes from their brothers or sisters,
Not always brand-new clothing. But that old lady is right, they didn't have
The green thing back in her day.

Back then, they had one TV, or radio, in the house not a TV in every
Room. And the TV had a small screen the size of a pizza dish, not a
Screen
The size of the state of Montana. In the kitchen, they blended and
Stirred by hand because they didn't have electric machines to do everything for
You. When they packaged a fragile item to send in the mail, they used wadded
Up newspaper to cushion it, not Styrofoam or plastic bubble wrap.

Back then, they didn't fire up an engine and burn gasoline just to cut
The lawn. They used a push mower that ran on human power. They exercised by
Working so they didn't need to go to a health club to run on treadmills
That operate on electricity. But she's right, they didn't have the green thing
Back then.

They drank from a fountain when they were thirsty, instead of using a cup
Or a plastic bottle every time they had a drink of water. They refilled
Pens with ink, instead of buying a new pen, and they replaced the razor blades
In a razor instead of throwing away the whole razor just because the blade
Got dull. But they didn't have the green thing back then.

Back then, people took the streetcar and kids rode their bikes to school
Or rode the school bus, instead of turning their moms into a 24-hour taxi
Service. They had one electrical outlet in a room, not an entire bank of
Sockets to power a dozen appliances. And they didn't need a computerized
Gadget to receive a signal beamed from satellites 2,000 miles out in
Space in order to find the nearest pizza joint.

But that old lady is right. They didn't have the green thing back in her
Day.

Benedict's Rule of Order for Families

This section can be nicely adapted for family use, particularly for those families who like family conferences:

When there is important business to be be done
in the home or by the family,
let the parents call together the whole family
and state the matter to be acted upon.
Then, having heard the children's advice,
let the parents turn the matter over in their own minds
and do what they shall judge to be most expedient.
The reason we have said that all should be called for counsel
is that the Lord often reveals to the younger what is best.
Let the family members give their advice
with all the deference required by humility,
and not presume stubbornly to defend their opinions;
but let the decision rather depend on the father's judgment,
and all submit to whatever he shall decide for their welfare.
However, just as it is proper
for the disciples to obey their master,
so also it is his function
to dispose all things with prudence and justice.

I think those last four lines are areas where many families go aground.  Some are uncomfortable with that whole 'obey' thing, considering it too authoritarian.  And some are so authoritarian they don't spend too much time on the prudence and justice.

A silly illustration of this I have mentioned here before is our rule that nobody was allowed to ask "how we there yet," or "How much longer" on car trips.  Blynken was just informed of this rule a day or two ago by the FYG, who perhaps had a little too much zest than prudence or justice as she passed this rule on.  He was a little shocked- in fact, he didn't believe her at first.  I assured him that yes, it certainly had always been a rule in our family that the children could ask those tedious, tiresome, annoying questions on our frequent car trips (the main reason for this is that we had seven children- multiply that times the number of times each child could ask, and we would do nothing but say "no, a while longer" the whole time).
However, we recognized that by making such a rule for our benefit and convenience, we also put the children in a somewhat awkward and tedious position, too, so explained to them that to be fair, we would try hard to remember to make a general announcement from time to time about how much longer it would be until we arrived.This way they were not left in limbo, wondering for hours if the trip was nearly over or if it was merely half way done.

As I said, a small and trivial example.  People assume that strict parents will have children who will rebel.  I don't want to make a faulty blanket assertion of my own to counter that one, but I have seen that it's not the authority wielded- it's the imprudence and lack of justice in the use of that authority that causes the spirit to rise up in resentment.

Lord, let me be a firm but loving 'abbess' to the children in my care today, and let my mothering be always humbly informed by prudence and justice.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Baby Joseph (written by a very tired HG)

This story makes me weep joyously in a way I would never have done before November. I first read about it when a Facebook friend shared a link about the case earlier; a judge in Canada ordered that this baby with a rare (and ultimately fatal) neurological disorder be pulled off life support, against the wishes of his family. What made me literally choke and stare at the screen for a while in the initial story was the judge's decision to delay the killing a few days "to afford the whole family adequate time to say their good-byes."
Adequate time to say good bye? A medical board and judge who have never seen the baby (the medical board refused the parents' request to at least visit the baby in the hospital before deciding. That's either cowardice or callousness) are deciding what is "adequate time" for parents to say goodbye to their son? As someone who has been given an informational sheet saying that her baby's condition is usually fatal, as a mother who heard him grunt as he tried to breathe after birth, and as someone who wakes up suddenly to nightmares that her son once again gray and unresponsive, I cannot fathom a third party ever thinking they have the right to tell me what is "adequate time" to say farewell. Actually, most people know this anyway. There is never adequate time to say goodbye to the ones we love.
Considering the fact that Joseph's parents have already lost one sweet child to this disorder and only asked fora surgical procedure that might allow them to take Joseph home to die, it's galling to read that the medical board and judge decided they were being "unrealistic." Look, folks, one of the realest things in the world is saying goodbye to a loved one. Baby Joseph's parents have done that once already and are preparing to do it again; they just wanted a chance at snuggling their son at home instead of a hospital as they said goodbye. And, yet, doctors, medical boards, and a judge thought they knew better.

They don't always know better, of course. Anybody seen the story of Kimberly McNeill? Doctors pulled her off of life support against her family's wishes (probably first giving them "adequate" time to say goodbye), and you know what? She didn't die. She recovered, despite injuries so bad the doctors said she would never recover.

I am not naive enough to even begin to think this will happen with Baby Joseph. His parents are still dealing with the harsh reality of losing him. But at least they're fighting for the life he has right now and the sweet time together they can still give him. It's just devastating that they also have to fight the very people who should be fighting alongside with them.

Welcome! It's another exciting and useful Four Moms Thursday where we discuss domesticities and children every week, and sometimes share our failings as well.  This week, we're talking about getting the family out the door in time for church. Do not miss what my co-conspirators are sharing:

Kim C at Life in a Shoe notes it's not about the size of your family, which is true- we were more often late with one than we have been with seven of us plus the two little boys. It looks like her family could also use some prayers, and we can all be grateful that God knows why, even when we do not.

Connie at Smockity Frocks has a tip she won't admit to using and neither will I, although if we were to use that tip, it's more often on the morning of things like road trips. Not that this is an admission, of course.

Kimberly at Raising Olives is making me envious. They leave for church 2 1/2 HOURS later than we do.

It's Thursday again already?? How did that happen? When? What happened to the rest of the week in between Thursdays? And where are my SHOES?

That's often how I have felt about Sunday mornings.  Or any other mornings where I have places I need to be.   I can give you tips and ideas, but the truth is in our younger days (back when we had a mere two children) we were so disorganized that we once showed up to church and discovered that one of us had no shoes. It was my husband- and he was scheduled to preach (he preached anyway, in his stockinged feet). And there was another time I discovered my preschooler had no underwear on- just as she flashed the speaker that day.

There were months and months at one congregation where I felt like God's purpose in having us there was to assist in the sanctification of and developing forebearance and charity in some older saints who were much pained by our frequent tardiness, and further humiliation, er, I mean developing humility, on my part. It was painful, because during that period I was actually doing all the things you are supposed to do (more on those in a minute), and yet the most bizarre things would happen to us on our way out the door or as we started to church- the key to the car broke, a child slipped on the steps and cut her head, I would drop a jug of milk on the floor and watch it splatter all over the floor (and on my shoes, and the hem of my skirt, necessitating a change), we'd get halfway there and find a kitten in the car (I am allergic to cats and leaving a kitten in the car for a couple hours and then getting back in the same car was not an option),a child would step on the hem of my skirt as I was on my knees helping her sibling, and when I stood the tiered skirt would make a lovely ripping sound and I would feel a draft where no draft should ever be felt,  we would discover that a child had gone out to the car the night before to get a beloved stuffed animal, forgetting to close the door and the battery was dead- or the barn cats had pooped on the seats (I am not making this stuff up), and on one occasion the snow storm in the night had piled the snow up tightly against the outside doors that we had to shovel our way out.

I know we were the topic of a couple of pointed sermons.  The speaker would say things like 'you wouldn't be late to a job, why be more disrespectful to the Lord," and I would rebelliously think:
a. I do not have to take seven children with me to work, dressed in prettier and cleaner clothes than they wear the rest of the week, plus shoes.
b. I do NOT have an outside job, and if I did, I'm pretty sure I'd be fired for excessive lateness.
c. It is not The Lord who is offended. He's seen my morning and I am pretty sure He understands.


At some point during this time one of our elder's wives took me aside to give me tips and suggestions on how to make Sunday mornings run more smoothly so we could get to church on time. We were doing all of them. I proceeded to explain the things that had made us late the previous string of Sundays, and she just gaped at me. I am not sure if she thought I was lying, or if I was cursed, a sort of Jonah who really ought to be tossed overboard before I contaminated the rest of the group and caused all their little ships to sink beneath the weight of our disorganized chaos.

So there you have it- asking me for advice on getting out the door on time is kind of like asking the woman who was divorced six times for advice on marriage.  Here's my advice anyway, combined with some Awful Warnings:

  • You all know that laying out everybody's clothes on Saturday the night before is the way to go, from shoes and socks to underwear and all outerwear- even though if you're like me, the dog will drag away a shoe in the middle of the night and chew it to shreds, or he will lay down across three outfits for a nap after having had a nice roll in a dead rabbit he found outside. Still, it's a good habit to have. No, not rolling in dead rabbits, silly, laying out clothes the night before- especially shoes and socks.

  • As soon as the children were old enough to choose their own clothes, my husband had them start picking out their outfits, and I cannot stress enough that this includes shoes and socks, and bring them to me for inspection.  Do not accept excuses and assurances, no matter how stoutly given, that even though the shoes are not presented, the child really knows exactly where they are.  I know that faith is the assurance of things hoped for and the conviction of things unseen, but call me a doubting Thomas, because until I see those shoes and socks with my own eyes, I have no conviction at all that they exist in my house rather than some black hole. Of course, some days, that amounts to the same thing.

  • After a few major errors with this approach, there was a period of time where he required that the children get dressed from head to toe in those clothes to demonstrated to me that the clothes fit and that there no holes in embarrassingly conspicuous spots, nor any dreadfully hideous stains, no missing buttons, nothing to make us look even more obviously like an episode where the Beverly Hillbillies Run a Shoddy Daycare than usual. Supervise the return of the clothes to their proper place, or else you know what will happen to them.
 
  • It's a good idea to do showers and baths the night before, and put long-haired little girls to bed with hair so tightly braided that they look like you gave them a botox shot and they will never develop wrinkles. (I am sure this is why my 28 and 26 year old daughters, both mothers, look about 12 years old.  One day they will thank me for this.) 

  • After you put the offspring to bed early and go to bed yourself one of the children will probably throw up on another one, so it doesn't really help much, but still, it's a good idea.  After all, it is possible that nobody will get sick on a sibling, fiendishly coat a formerly nicely clean sibling in baby powder from head to toe, or, for reasons you will never, ever understand, get up in the night and eat two pieces of pink chalk and then drool pink, chalky, slimy goop into her beautiful white-blonde hair all night. I have heard of families where this sort of thing never happens. I'd like to meet them in a dark alley, er, I mean, in Heaven someday.
  • It is a good idea to think ahead about meals, too- although eventually, we just ended up skipping breakfast.  When the children were smaller, this was often when we had peanut butter sandwiches or granola for breakfast.  Either feed the children in their skivvies, or safety pin a beach towel around their necks like a bib.  

  • Start prepping a casserole or crockpot meal the night before, and get it in the oven or crockpot before heading out for church.

  • Get up earlier than you think you need to, and go to bed earlier than you want to.

  • My husband gets up first on Sundays, and he puts some praise music or hymns on the CD player kind of LOUDLY.  He wakes up any lingering slug-a-beds.  Water may or may not be involved, I can neither confirm nor deny, although I have heard that the children thoroughly enjoy it when, er, I mean, if it ever happens.

  • As your family grows, assign older children to help with younger children.  

  • Eliminate any clothes that require ironing.  They are a tool of Satan.

  • Move to a climate where sandals are always seasonable, thus eliminating the need for socks, wickedly promiscuous creatures that they are, never staying with their original mate.

  • Pack the diaper bag the night before.

  • Go to bed at a reasonable time.  So maybe you should bump all that stuff you're supposed to do the night before up to the morning before.

  • My mother's practice was for each of us to have an outfit known as 'church clothes.'  As soon as we got home from church, she made us change our clothes, and then she looked quickly over the Church Clothes to see if we'd done them any damage. If not, she just hung them back in the closet so they would be readily available the following Sunday.We eventually moved to much more casual clothing- at least until the teenage girls got old enough to buy and care for their own clothes.

  • Be cheerful.  No matter what.  Think through your priorities here- what really matters? That the children all wore matching colors and looked like they stepped off the cover of The Teaching Home?  Or that you remained cheerful and in good spirits with each other, and went with uplifted hearts to join other Christians in praise and fellowship, even though somebody's hair was unbrushed, and the preschooler had peanut butter smeared on her cheeks, and the Boy managed to make it out the door wearing a Star Wars t-shirt featuring Darth Maul?*
*Who?  My kid?  Of course not.

What's been most helpful to you in getting ready for church?

and have you read Karen Burton Maines Making Sundays Special?
  • March 31 - Q and A

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Cute Baby

No, not one of ours, but hilarious:


Delightfully charming.

So what do you know about this?

I don't know, and I do not have time to check- I am with the Striderling waiting for helping printing out a recipe, dabbling about the interwebs while I wait, and then there's this:

Caught on Tape: Ex-SEIU Hack Openly Plots to Collapse America’s Free Market System and Overthrow the United States Government
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. You can’t be a progressive and honestly take an oath to uphold and defend the Constitution of the United States. The progressive agenda is completely, utterly at odds with America’s highest law.
And no one makes this more clear than ex-SEIU official Steve Lerner, who patiently explained a few days ago how the Democrats, the unions and the Soros globalists are helping to destroy the United States from within.
The headings are my “reader’s digest” version — but the words are those of the Leftists who are plotting to destroy you, your children and your way of life. But don’t listen to me: listen to them.

Click through to read more of a transcript and to listen to the phone call.

REally?  REALLY?

Leftist George Monbiot on Nuclear Power

events in Japan have changed my view of nuclear power. You will be surprised to hear how they have changed it. As a result of the disaster at Fukushima, I am no longer nuclear-neutral. I now support the technology.

A crappy old plant with inadequate safety features was hit by a monster earthquake and a vast tsunami. The electricity supply failed, knocking out the cooling system. The reactors began to explode and melt down. The disaster exposed a familiar legacy of poor design and corner-cutting. Yet, as far as we know, no one has yet received a lethal dose of radiation.

Some greens have wildly exaggerated the dangers of radioactive pollution. For a clearer view, look at the graphic published by xkcd.com. It shows that the average total dose from the Three Mile Island disaster for someone living within 10 miles of the plant was one 625th of the maximum yearly amount permitted for US radiation workers. This, in turn, is half of the lowest one-year dose clearly linked to an increased cancer risk, which, in its turn, is one 80th of an invariably fatal exposure. I'm not proposing complacency here. I am proposing perspective.

The Right to Petition

The Right To Petition

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

In 1831, at the close of the year, John Quincy Adams was sworn in as a U.S. Senator. He had also served as President, and he was the son of a President. He wrote in his diary that nothing gratified him more than his election to the Senate.
Constitutional rights were very dear and precious to the Senator, and he fought a long and hard battle in defense of one particular freedom we take for granted today, the right to petition.

Around 1836, in response to a flood of petitions from abolitionists, South Carolina Representative John Henry Hammond moved to 'peremptorily' discard all petitions related to slavery without so much as a mention, let alone a perusal. After months of wrangling, a committee formed to work out the issue suggested that any petition regarding slavery, no matter in what fashion, and no matter how tenuous the connection, would automatically be banned. This was, of course, a flagrant violation of the Bill of Rights.
We hold this freedom lightly because in these emancipated days, men and women, blacks and whites, all citizens who have reached the age of majority, can vote (barring felons). But the, the right to petition was the only redress to their government that free blacks and women had. And Congress shut their mouths. The ban was, in fact, known as the 'gag rule.'
For almost a decade Adams fought fiercely against this gross disregard for the Constitution- it was a bitter and acrimonious fight. He received death threats. He lost friends. He made bitter enemeies. But finally he won enough support to reinstate the right to petition the government, no matter what the topic.
"Blessed, forever blessed, be the name of God," he wrote in his diary. (you can read some more about this here, and you should also absolutely, positively, definitely read this wonderful book- probably in my top ten favorite history books ever written)

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Charlotte Mason Handicrafts

Miss Mason advocated for children to work with  various handicrafts, writing:
He practises various handicrafts that he may know the feel of wood, clay, leather, and the joy of handling tools, that is, that he may establish a due relation with materials.

Here's my son's application of the theory.
I am sure Miss Mason would have included duct tape, PVC pipe, and styrofoam in her list of materials with which children should be familiar.

The Anatomy of a Bloggy Lie

It's fascinating.  The lie was:
bizarre in the first place,
easily checked in the second place,
repeated in cut and paste fashion (journolist or something like it is apparently not dead) in the third place,
and not only are apologies and retractions conspicuously absent, in at least one well known leftist blog, instead of retracting the false charge, the blogger has actually chosen instead to revise her previous post and then point to the scrubbed and polished post as proof that she never passed on false information.

Crooks & Liars, along with many other lefty blogs, claimed that a law had been proposed in Wisconsin that would make it illegal for poor people to carry more than $20 cash!
 

Incidentally, this is why you need a diversity of ideologies in journalism, academia, and even blogs- and certainly among your friends. Because while this apparently seemed so reasonable to msot of the left that they didn't even bother to check, I think most libertarians and conservatives would have immediately laughed at this preposterous charge. No way that's true. That check to the 'too good to check' confirmation bias that is inherent to people who get passionate about their politics is a good thing- but it's a thing we don't have enough of.

Lee Stranahan is working at it- he's not a conservative, either- and he shares the details of his uncomfortable discovery- that the leftist side of the spectrum was reporting something false in lock-step, even cut and paste mode, without checking it.

That’s a lot of left wing blogs from Marxist ones to ‘moderate left ones. One interesting thing is that they repeat the same story – like, literally cut and pasted. That’s what I would call ‘lockstep liberalism’ but it’s gone beyond that to mindless copycat liberalism.


Did anyone question the story at all or even read the law? Four pages, at the bottom – I found someone. A right winger who quotes the Bible and has a Hillary Clinton ‘Joker’ picture on his blog. The sort of fellow that liberals would call a right wing nutjob, if they were being kind.


Guess what? That’s the guy who had the story right. Hundreds of liberals get crazy about this story, with smugly violent comments about how stupid and evil the Republicans are…and a lone right winger absolutely nails the story. I present to you, The Catawissa Gazetteer., Tom Usher.


He quotes the law itself, including this relevant portion…


During the initial 30 calendar days of eligibility, a recipient may have cash benefits issued on an EBT card without the recipient’s name printed on the card. This card may be the same card on which food support is issued and does not need to meet the requirements of this section.(c) Notwithstanding paragraph (a), EBT cardholders may opt to have up to $20 per month accessible via automatic teller machine or receive up to $20 cash back from vendor.


Then he gives his opinion. Tom’s reading of the law is the same as mine…


…does it appear to you in any way that the Republicans are trying to limit the amount of cash anyone is allowed to carry? No. They are merely limiting the amount of cash that can be withdrawn from the state issued debit card.


Yep. That’s exactly what the law says. It doesn’t say (as Crooks and Liars reported) that it’s “a crime for people on public assistance to have more than $20 in cash in their pockets any given month. “

Actually, it's even better- from what I can see, the Republicans are only limiting the 20 dollars on the government debit card for the first month- the time period when the recipient's name isn't on the card, so anybody could presumably mug them and use the card to swipe large amounts of money. It is an inconvenience, but it's not a punishment or an anti-poor law- it appears to be for the purpose of protecting them and the taxpayers from theft during the period of time that they are holding a temporary card with no name on it.

Some people are hastily dismissing Stranahan because he's been working with Andrew Breitbart- which is fascinating if you've been reading Stranahan's stuff for any length of time.

He notes:
The argument is so simplistic: I think what I think because someone gave me money. Of course, these people weren’t making these same arguments when I was getting money from liberal groups MoveOn or Brave New Films or Talking Points Memo. Taking money from them didn’t cloud my judgment or impair my thinking, apparently. Nope. Only money that has passed through the hands of someone conservative has the magic power to make me change my ideas.

He's very concerned about the lockstep liberalism that has become increasingly common (I would say characteristic) of the left- this is a guy who was banished from Kos because he said he looked to him like Edwards did have an affair- and when Edwards admitted it, there were no apologies.

He has been working with Breitbart on the Pigford story, and he says:
I haven’t seen a single solitary conservative tell me that they refuse to read the story or form an opinion on it because I’m a liberal. On the other hand, I’ve seen a number of liberals (not all, but a bunch) who literally refuse to even consider the story because of Andrew Breitbart’s involvement – a position that only hurts the bona fide farmers and helps those that prey upon them.

He's getting a lot in your face opposition of the usual sort in response to that- by usual sort, I mean lies, filthy name calling,and the fingers in the ears sort of discourse that does nobody any good at all.

Serendipitous Midnight Snack

About 1 to 1 1/2 cups frozen organic strawberries
About 2 to 3 cups of raw whole milk that had slowly thickened and gone sour in the back of the fridge- It poured easily, but was thicker than fresh sweet milk, and had a delicious sour taste- reminded me of excellent yogurt or sour cream, which it will probably become if I leave the rest in the fridge a few more days.
5 drops of Berry Stevia

The blender

It was an incredibly delicious cross between frozen yogurt and a strawberry yogurt drink. It was the berries being frozen that made it like frozen yogurt- as the remaining mixture in the blender met room temperature, it became more like a yummy yogurt drink.

Earlier in the evening I'd wanted a glass of raw milk, but it had gone sour. I tasted it, and while it didn't hit the spot for what I wanted, there was just something about that taste that I couldn't get out of my head. It was slightly familiar, tantalizingly so. Then much later I was getting out the ingredients for our crockpot grain breakfast*, including the sour milk, and realized what it reminded me of- tall bottles of a cool, refreshing, organic strawberry yogurt drink made locally (more or less).

And since I had the milk and the blender out already....




*(this time half barley, half oat groats, a tablespoon or so of cinnamon, a few plops of coconut oil, 3 cups of sour milk and two cups of almonds run through the blender, all stirred together, then later four cups of ice cubes added to the top and crockpot turned on low, more tips on this easy, versatile, frugal and nourishing breakfast here)

President Commits U.S. Forces to War, Notifies Congress Two Days Later

The Constitution, Libya, War, and the President:
As any constitutional conservative knows, Congress has the authority to declare war. And while this doesn't require that Congress use any particular magic words ("this is a declaration of war"), it does require that they authorize the President to order military action against another country. With a single exception during President Clinton's second term, Presidents have for the past 40 years or so always gotten Congressional authorization for war action prior to or at least contemporaneously with military action. It seems Obama isn't even planning to get retroactive authorization and that's a problem.

The possible exception to this clear constitutional rule is under the War Powers Resolution of 1973. Setting aside whether the resolution is even constitutional, it at least would provide cover for a President committing the United States to war without going to Congress for a while. But according to its text the President can only invoke the War Powers Resolution to go to war if the United States is under attack or serious threat. Obama cannot possibly claim that was the case before he went to war against Libya.

Note that notification is not the same as authorization, which is what the Constitution requires.

The President was once a Senior Lecturer (not a professor) in Constitutional Law. In 2007 he knew what the President's duties were in this regard, but I guess it was different, since he wasn't the President:
“The President does not have power under the Constitution to unilaterally authorize a military attack in a situation that does not involve stopping an actual or imminent threat to the nation,”
that was then candidate Obama answering a question from the press.

Jake Tapper says:
The notification was part of the president’s “efforts to keep the Congress fully informed, consistent with the War Powers Resolution,” but given complaints from both Democrats and Republicans in Congress, and the fact that the war started two days ago, it had the effect of a rather discomforting “While You Were Out…” note.

That 'While You Were Out...' note was conspicuously missing a pesky little Constitutional detail requiring the President to 'set forth;:
the constitutional and legislative authority under which such [military] introduction took place"
Title 50, Chapter 33, § 1543(a)(3)(B)

John Hawkins has some questions he would like some on the left to answer.  Here's one:
1) Isn't this a rush to war? There were 17 UN resolutions regarding Iraq, Bush talked about going to war for a full year before we actually invaded, and he received Congressional approval first. After all that, liberals STILL shouted that it was a "rush to war." Meanwhile, Obama decided to bomb Libya in between making his Final Four picks and planning out a vacation to Brazil, probably because Hillary yelled at him. How about applying the same standards to Obama that you applied to Bush? 

Rep. Roscoe Bartlett (R-Md.) reminds the President Who Would Be King that he isn't:
“The United States does not have a King's army.”
 Via Instapundit:
AARON WORTHING: Please stop with the Libyan schadenfreude. Oh, I’m not that reasonable. Watching the people who savaged Bush and called his supporters warmongers and so on now faced with watching the Lightbringer doing basically the same thing, only less competently, is too good a pleasure to forego. Sorry. I hope that things will go well, but I agree with Niall Ferguson that Obama’s dithering has cost us. If we had elected a more competent President, we’d have fewer worries. But people got excited about Obama, and, well, this is what you get when you elect an inexperienced guy with no great interest — or any experience — in international relations.
Rep. Edward Markey (D-Mass.) acknowledges that it's all about oil, and only oil, but this time, that's okay.
"We are in Libya because of oil," Markey said on MSNBC. "It all goes back to the 5 million barrels of oil we import from OPEC on a daily basis."
 As long as no American soldiers are on the ground, he says, the President made a good decision.  Apprently, the Constitution matters little to Rep. Markey.
We don't, so far as I know, import oil from Libya, and we could solve this problem by drilling for oil here.

We are still in Iraq.  We are still in Afghanistan.  Gitmo wasn't closed, although he did throw his supporters a pretty sop of a signing ceremony saying it would be closed, and that seemed to sooth most of them. He's even got his own Abu Ghraib scandal, only it's much, much worse.

And the President just blew off the Constitution.  Not for the first time, and I am sure it won't be the last.

Update; Aaron has more here.